Tactful or truthful

[Rico™][凯缤]says:
i ask u arh
do u think tactful more important or truthful more important ?

**[hui]+[ling]!! says:
the ideal situation is striking a balance between both
but if really want to weigh it, i think tactful more important. but it also depend on situation
and factors

[Rico™][凯缤] says:
but like tat wats the point in asking ppl for opinon ?
whens the answer is tactfully constructed
and not everyone can read between the lines

**[hui]+[ling]!!>>says:
***but it also depend on situation
*and factors
****
it's not abt reading in between the lines

[Rico™][凯缤] says:
then tactful answer is rather hard to be truth ful right ?

**[hui]+[ling]!!> says:
being tactful is about bringing out ur point while putting it in a nice way
it doesn't mean that its not being truthful

[Rico™][凯缤]says:
but would it have a negetive effect on me ?
like u might have thought im not in tat deep shit...
but IM ?
then I might be affected to do other stuff ... so on

**[hui]+[ling]!!>> says:
if i think u are in deep shit, i will tell u, just in a different way

[Rico™][凯缤]The Perfect Words Nv Crossed My Mind Cos Theres Nothing In There But You says:
i mean
if u told me in a nicer way
i might not have seen it as im in deep shit.. but in lesser shit... which might complicate my choices more
at least tats wat i assume

**[hui]+[ling]!!>> says:
carefully explain it till the person see it
it's not abt telling the person tt he's in deep shit
but convincing him to believe that he is in deep shit
he will know it if he's convinced
then he can make his decision

[Rico™][凯缤] says:
tat wont be tactful its juz detailed right ?
i check dict see tactful

**[hui]+[ling]!!>>[(*)<<--charisma-->>(*)] --> Eyes that speak says:
i think it's tactful
tactful is abt being careful

[Rico™][凯缤] says:
wait ar checking

**[hui]+[ling]!!>> says:
and in this case being careful with words
it's not so abt being detailed

[Rico™][凯缤] says:
ok the dict is not helping
its complicating matters
haha
Possessing or exhibiting tact; considerate and discreet: a tactful person; a tactful remark.

**[hui]+[ling]!!>>[(*)<<--charisma-->>(*)] --> Eyes that speak says:
considerate and discree
t*

[Rico™][凯缤]says:
Tact"ful\, a. Full of tact; characterized by a discerning sense of what is right, proper, or judicious.
ok heres the problem
no 2 says show good sense of what is right proper
then if im straight to the face and give him wat i think is right and proper
tats not tactful
haha
but here its trying to say considerate and discreet to whom ?
to the truth of to the person u telling
if ur discreet and considerate are u still discerning sense of what is right, proper, or judicious?